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怎样才能不嫉妒那些比自己成功得多的同龄人?

怎样才能不嫉妒那些比自己成功得多的同龄人?

原作者:马修·曼宁(Matthew Manning)

译者:番薯啊同腰果齐欢唱

1. 你压根不知道他们实际的私生活是怎样的,也不会知道他们表面上的风光是否只是虚有其表。

2. 别浪费精力在别人身上了,你需要关注你自身。对别人的成功耿耿于怀只会浪费你的时间,令你无暇照料自己的心灵花园。

3. 成功的一般标准(钱,地位,家庭)就像是社会给你准备好的饭盒。社会把饭盒打开,把里面的东西全都塞进你的喉咙里。有意思么?你只要弄明白对自己来说成功是什么,然后专注地去追求它。

4. 你现在才二十几岁,看好了,一些现在被你嫉妒的人,将来可能遭遇大挫败。

5. 你只能做你能做的事情。如果你在能做的事情上不遗余力,并且一直坚持自己的价值观,那么你的人生正走在完全正确的道路上。你听清楚了吗?完全正确

6. 如果你一度感到自我怀疑,那么把每一个怀疑想象成一张手纸,然后把它们全部揉成一团,扔进马桶,对着脚踏奋力一踩,把它们全冲走。

7. 每天起床后,好好感激你所拥有的一切。我所认识最快乐的人,都怀抱感恩之情,充分发挥他们天生的才能。

8. 读第九条之前,至少想出一个认为你很棒的人。试着像那个人一样看待自己。

9. 你难道不觉得宇宙是如此广阔、深邃、令人惊叹的吗?谁还会为3200美元的工资差距烦恼呢?就在这一分钟里就已经有很多超新星在爆炸呢。

10. 生命是一场马拉松,而不是短跑。接近终点线时,你就会明白,一路上你的对手只有你自己。

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英文原文:

  1. You have ZERO idea what their personal lives are actually like, or if their outward appearance of success is total bullshit.
  2. Stop focusing outward, focus inward.  A preoccupation with the success of others is taking time away from tending your own internal garden.
  3. Believing in common measures of success (money, position, family) is believing in a ready-made lunch box of meaning that society is opening up and shoving down your throat.  WHO CARES.  Figure out what success is for yourself and then just focus on pursuing that.
  4. You are in your 20s, so be prepared to witness some epic personal collapses of those whom you are currently envious of.
  5. You can’t do anything besides what you can do. If you’re giving it your all and staying focused on your values, then your life is progressing exactly as it should be.  Did you hear that?  EXACTLY AS IT SHOULD BE.
  6. When you have an episode of crippling self-doubt, picture each doubt as a single sheet of paper.  Then crunch all of them together and throw them into the toilet of your mind.  Now angrily kick-flush that toilet with your foot.
  7. Actively work to express gratitude for what you do have every morning.  The happiest people I know are full of gratitude, and they are profoundly in touch with their innate talents.
  8. Before you read number nine, think of at least one person who thinks you’re awesome.  Try to think of yourself as that person does.
  9. Isn’t the universe so vast, so deep, so incredibly amazing?  Who could possibly worry about a 3200 dollar difference in salary when there are stars supernova-ing right this very minute?
  10. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.  Near the finish line, you’ll realize you’ve only been racing against yourself.

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